Mama at home

Wednesday, April 26, 2006

Operation Feed Maggie

I made the decision to breast feed my baby. I, also, made the decision to work outside of my home. These two decisions create a lot of work for Tony and I, but the benefits for Maggie are definitely worth the effort.
I leave Maggie at day care each morning after her breakfast at 6:45. I leave 3 bottles for her each day with about 4 ounces in each bottle. Since I went back to work when she was six weeks old the amount in each bottle has slowly increased from 2 to 4.
After I leave her, I drive to the park and ride and hop on my bus with my pumping supplies. At work I pump 3 to 5 times depending on how much free time I have. I pump in a storage closet near to my cubicle. I double pump which is supposed to help maintain my supply. This was a tricky skill to learn, but now I can accomplish the double pump with one hand. My other hand is then free to talk on the phone or work on paper work. Each pumping session yields between 2 and 3 ounces. By the end of the day I usually have between 8 and 10 ounces. I carry the milk home in a soft sided cooler with freezer packs.
While we're apart Maggie usually only drinks two bottles. The third bottle is back up in case something happens and I can't pick her up at the normal time (between 4 and 4:30). She consumes an average of 8 ounces each day from the bottle. That means the remaining ~20 ounces she eats comes direct from the source.
When I pick her up, we usually nurse at the day care before we leave. This gives us a chance to reconnect after our hours apart. She's not necessarily very hungry at this time, just happy to see Mama. I throw her empty bottles into the diaper bag, and we head home.
Once we reach home, preparations for the next day begin. The fresh milk from the day is removed from the cooler and put in the refrigerator. The freezer packs are put in the freezer. The used bottles for the day are rinsed and put in the dishwasher. Bottles for the next day are prepared. Usually just two 4 ounce bottles are made to replace the amount consumed. Any surplus is left in the storage bottle. When the surplus milk from the weekday pumping gets to be five ounces or more I freeze it. The now empty storage bottles are rinsed and put in the dishwasher. The flanges, diaphragms and gaskets (pieces of the pump that come into contact with the milk) are rinsed and put in the dishwasher or washed with really hot water. We try to only run the dishwasher when it's full, so sometimes the pump parts just get a sanitizing wash rather than the full dishwasher treatment. The bottle making and cleaning tasks are shared between Tony and me. He can't physically feed Maggie, but he's a major part of Operation Feed Maggie.
Maggie eats several times during the evening and night. She's generally a content baby, so most of the time when she gets fussy she is ready to eat. These evening and night feedings are a wonderful part of my home life. It makes me happy to be able to feed and comfort my baby. She wakes at least once in the night to nurse, but she immediately goes back to sleep.
Before leaving for work, the pumping bag is packed: three clean storage bottles, flanges, diaphragms and gaskets are thrown in with the other pump parts. The fresh bottles are put in the diaper bag and then moved to the day care refrigerator.
This cycle occurs every weekday. I rarely pump on the weekends. I could pump more then and build up a larger frozen stock pile, but I'd rather do other things and nurse Maggie. The Maggie milk cycle allows for some changes to the routine. Occasionally Maggie has a hungry day and eats all three bottles. A few times a month, I work at the hangars instead of downtown. I still pump on these days, but my yield is not as high. There may be times that I need to work at night (So far, it's only happened once). These nights Tony will have to use the days milk for night consumption. I can make up any disparities with fresh or frozen surplus.
Maggie has flourished with her diet. She weighed 9 pounds at birth and is now over 15 pounds at five months. Some opinions say that I could start feeding her solids now, but I'm planning on waiting for another month or two. Even when she starts solids, her milk consumption will stay about the same. So the Maggie milk cycle will continue until she's at least a year old. Maybe at one year, I'll start giving her cow's milk at day care and continue nursing at night.

Thursday, April 13, 2006

Maggie's Sleep Schedule

I want to record a normal night for Maggie at age four and a half months. She's kept roughly this same schedule for the last three months.
9:00 pm
Mama is ready to go to bed. Maggie gets her last meal for the night, and she usually falls asleep in the middle. This last nursing is done laying down in the big bed. I stick the pacifier in her mouth if she'll take it. After she falls asleep, I let her lay there for at least five minutes. She has to be solidly asleep for the move.
9:30ish
I slide one hand under her head and one hand under her butt. I lift her up and over to her cradle. If all goes well, she does not wake up. I cover her with a blankie and get to bed myself. If she does wake up, we repeat the previous step. I'll repeat twice, after that I give up and let her spend the whole night in the bed with me.
12:00ish to 2:00ish
Sometime in that time window, I am awaken by soft baby noises. Little grunts and sighs jolt me from my sleep. She rarely wakes up enough to really cry. I get her out of the cradle, and we nurse laying down. I fall asleep. Maggie falls asleep. I never stay awake for this midnight snack. Soon I will start making an effort to stay awake and put her back in her cradle, but for now she sleeps with us for the second half of the night.
4:30
My crazy husband's alarm goes off. The clock is on my side of the bed so I hit snooze.
4:38
I hit snooze again.
4:46
Tony gets up and turns off the alarm. Sometimes Maggie sleeps through all of the alarms. Sometimes she wakes up and wants an early morning snack. So we nurse again and both fall asleep. Tony gets ready to go to the gym. Maggie and I get a kiss as he leaves.
6:00
My alarm goes off. I get up and leave Maggie sawing toothpicks in the king size bed. I get dressed, feed the kitty, and load up the car with the bags (diaper bag with fresh milk for the daycare, nursing bag with empty bottles and pump, and purse).
6:15
I wake up my sleeping beauty. She stretches and smiles. Maggie is definitely a morning baby. I change her diaper and get her dressed for the day. She goes into the car seat, and we head for the daycare.
6:25
We arrive at the daycare which is deserted. I get into the back seat with Maggie, and she has breakfast. I started this nursing in the parking lot deal in hopes to spend a few extra minutes with her before I had to leave her for the day. She usually eats while I talk to her or sing. Other times she's not interested in nursing so we just play for a few mintures.
6:45
The daycare opens. I drop off my sweet girl. In the future I hope she enjoys our few minutes of bonding in the car and doesn't feel sad when I leave.
I pick her up around 4:30 or earlier. She usually sleeps for several hours while there.
We have a lovely evening together. Then the whole cycle starts all over.
I think I'll write a few posts in the future to chronicle the milk cycle and all the work that goes into keeping Maggie supplied with fresh milk.